Thursday, April 16, 2015

Edge Of The Barrel..










The commercials always portray the mind and heart of a soldier as super human.  With the strength and will beyond what is comprehensible to the normal person.  These soldiers put their very lives on the line so that we can have the freedoms we enjoy; their hopes and desires hidden to their own view for the duration of their duty all for the sake of mankind. My question to you is; Who saves them when the pain of war and the longing to be home with their family becomes too much to bear? When the noises of bombs and reality of being close to death daily are more than the mind can take; Who steps in for them?

This is the story of a man who had already endured time in war when he found himself in a very real situation of life or death; but did he really want life?

”I served in the army for 11 years before finally getting out with a medical retirement due to injuries I sustained while in deployed in Iraq from 2006 to 2007. For the most part I have gotten along with just about everyone I have ever served with, except for my squad leader I had while deployed. This guy disliked me from the moment he met me, and he treated his entire squad like crap. In front of the other squads he would yell at us, and call us all kinds of names for the dumbest reasons, all to make himself look like a big tough squad leader. We had other members of our platoon tell us how bad they felt that we had him as a squad leader. I wish I could say that I only had one or two bad experiences while I was deployed in Iraq but there were many. To keep this short I am going to write just this one. Like I said I had a squad leader that was a complete jerk to his entire squad, and he seemed to really dislike me. He gave me any extra duty he could find. He would try and get me into trouble for any tiny thing he could find wrong with what I did. So, there I was in a country clear across the world from my wife and two boys (Paul 2, and Ashton 5 months), getting put on any extra duty my squad leader could find, my best friend was moved from camp Cedar to Tallil Air force Base about 5 mile down the road, and we were getting mortared every couple of days because it was almost the Fourth of July. I had just gotten off work and I was very tired and feeling alone. I went to call my family that night but I couldn’t either the phones were down because of the mortars or something. So I went back to my bunk and sat there for a while thinking of how much I really hated it there. As I sat on my bunk in my room in a tiny 10ft by 15ft trailer I lived in, I kept thinking it would be so easy to end it all right now. I had a M16 and about 100 rounds right next to me. The longer I sat there the more appealing the idea seemed to me. Thinking about how alone I felt at that moment I actually loaded a bullet into the chamber of my gun, pulled the charging handle, and rested my head on the barrel. As I sat there thinking of how easy it would be to pull that trigger and end the emotional pain I was in I lifted my head and said, “Father in Heaven, if there is a reason I shouldn’t do this you better stop me now.” I then put the gun back to my head and reached for the trigger. As my finger curled around the cold metal and slowly began to squeeze I heard a knock at my door, and immediately I knew it wasn’t time. I sat there for a second trying to wipe the tears from my eyes, then I got up and answered my door. It was one of the guys from my squad wanting to know if I wanted to go to chow with him. As we walked to the chow hall he told me he had a real strong impression to go and check on me. He had even walked halfway to the chow hall before he came back and got me. I didn’t tell him what had happened before he knocked on my door that night until we were already home, but I did tell him I was having a hard time with everything going on. We did talk that night while we were at chow, and then we went back to where our rooms were where we met up with some other guys in my platoon and we all played video games and made fun of how my squad leader treated my squad. It helped me not feel so alone, and afterwards the guy who knocked on my door asked me if I was praying regularly. I told him I was praying but not every day. He invited me to come and pray with him and a couple other guys that prayed each day before they went to bed. It wasn’t at a set time because we worked 12 on 12 off and switched from day shift to night shift every few weeks. I told him I would when I could and for the most part when I wasn’t on a convoy or being detained by extra work I showed up. I found some really good music by Josh Groban that also really helped me feel better. It was a difficult time in my life, but I learned that even in my darkest times God is with me and hears me.


Psalm 35

“1 Plead my cause, O Lord, with them that strive with me: fight against them that fight against me.

 2 Take hold of shield and buckler, and stand up for mine help.

 3 Draw out also the spear, and stop the way against them that persecute me: say unto my soul, I am thy salvation.

13 But as for me, when they were sick, my clothing was sackcloth: I humbled my soul with fasting; and my prayer returned into mine own bosom.

 14 I behaved myself as though he had been my friend or brother: I bowed down heavily, as one that mourneth for his mother.

 15 But in mine adversity they rejoiced, and gathered themselves together: yea, the abjects gathered themselves together against me, and I knew it not; they did tear me, and ceased not:

 16 With hypocritical mockers in feasts, they gnashed upon me with their teeth.

 17 Lord, how long wilt thou look on? rescue my soul from their destructions, my darling from the lions.

Let them shout for joy, and be glad, that favour my righteous cause: yea, let them say continually, Let the Lord be magnified, which hath pleasure in the prosperity of his servant.

 28 And my tongue shall speak of thy righteousness and of thy praise all the day long.”


In a time such as these when the world is so harsh as to drag down its own; it is an incredible thing to know that we have a Father in Heaven who cares enough to send aid to the very elite, to our super-humans.  Even the strong need someone who will stand for them and bring them peace.  What an incredible story of strength and love from our soldiers.  Thank you so very much for sharing your story.  I know that it will touch the hearts of many many individuals who have or are experiencing a very real war within themselves.  You are incredible for all you have done. Thank you again.

*Please send me your edge of the miracle story to (edgeofthemiracle@outlook.com). I will preview it and then keep in close contact with you before featuring it in an upcoming blog.  There are people out there that need your strength.  They need the kind of peace only your story can bring.  Even if you don't feel like it is worth a feature, just know that someone out there somewhere is needing to hear how you have overcome and the lessons that you have learned.  You may save their life or quite possibly save many lives. We need your story. 



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